Dress codes and occasions
What business casual, cocktail attire and black tie actually ask of you, and what to wear to weddings, interviews, funerals and graduations.
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Dress codes form a ladder: casual, smart casual, business casual, dressy casual, cocktail or semi formal, black tie optional, black tie and white tie. Knowing where an invitation sits on that ladder answers most of the question before you open the closet.
Each guide explains one code for men and women, with outfits that work, what to avoid and how time of day, venue and season change the answer. Occasion guides cover weddings, interviews, funerals, graduations and more.
Guides

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Beach wedding attire: what guests should wear
Beach wedding attire for guests: light fabrics, shoes that work on sand, and how to read the dress code, with outfits for men and women from casual to beach formal.

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Black tie attire: what to wear, for men and women
Black tie attire explained: the tuxedo in detail, the shirt, bow tie and shoes, plus gowns and elegant alternatives for women and black tie weddings.

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Black tie optional: what it means and what to wear
What black tie optional means for men and women: tuxedo or dark suit, gown or elegant cocktail dress, plus how to choose, dress for the season and avoid mistakes.

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Business casual for men: what to wear to work
What business casual means for men at work, with outfit formulas, the right shoes, when jeans are allowed and how to read your own office's version of the code.

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Business casual for women: what to wear to work
What business casual means for women at work: trousers, skirts, dresses, knitwear and shoes, with outfit formulas, what to avoid and how to read your office.

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Business professional attire for men and women
Business professional attire means a matched suit or its equivalent. What to wear for men and women, how it differs from business casual, and what to avoid.

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Casual wedding attire for guests
Casual on a wedding invitation still means dressed for a wedding. What men and women can wear, how venue and season change it, and where jeans fit in.

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Cocktail attire for men: what to wear
What cocktail attire means for men: the dark suit, when a tie is optional, how time, season and venue change it, and what to wear to a cocktail attire wedding.

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Cocktail attire for women: what to wear
What cocktail attire means for women: dress lengths, fabrics, jumpsuits and tailored sets, shoes and bags, and how the invitation, venue and season change it.

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Dressy casual: what it means for men and women
What dressy casual means on an invitation, with outfits for men and women, whether jeans count, and how a dressy casual wedding differs from a party or dinner.

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Garden party attire: what to wear outdoors
What garden party attire means for men and women: light day dresses and suits, shoes that work on grass, sun and heat, hats, and how garden formal differs.

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Golf attire: what to wear on the course
What golf attire means on most courses: collared shirts, tailored shorts or pants, skorts and golf shoes, plus what beginners can wear and what to leave at home.

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Semi formal attire for men and women
What semi formal attire means for men and women, how daytime and evening change it, and what to wear to a semi formal wedding, party or dance, with outfit ideas.

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Smart casual: what it means for men and women
What smart casual really means, how it differs from business casual, and what men and women can wear, including when jeans, sneakers and a blazer are right.

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Wedding guest attire: every dress code decoded
Wedding guest attire explained from black tie to casual, with what men and women can wear for each dress code, plus color, venue and religious considerations.

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What to wear for jury duty
What to wear for jury duty: what courts expect, whether jeans and sneakers are fine, outfits for men and women, layers for cold courtrooms and what to leave home.

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What to wear on a cruise, day and night
What to wear on a cruise for sea days, shore excursions, dinner and formal nights, with dining room rules, layers for cool evenings and how much to pack.

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What to wear on a first date
Dress one step above the setting, in clothes you already feel like yourself in. First date outfits for coffee, drinks, dinner and more, for men and women.

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What to wear to a bar or bat mitzvah
What to wear to a bar mitzvah or bat mitzvah as a guest: modest dress for the synagogue service, what changes at the party, and outfits for women, men and teens.

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What to wear to a bridal shower
What to wear to a bridal shower as a guest: how to read the venue and time of day, outfit ideas by season, whether jeans are fine, and why to skip white.

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What to wear to a concert
Concerts have no dress code, but hours standing, crowd heat and bag rules do. What to wear to a stadium, club, lawn or symphony concert, for any age.

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What to wear to a football game, in any weather
What to wear to a football game, from a hot September tailgate to a freezing night in December: layers, shoes, team colors without a jersey, and the clear bag rule.

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What to wear to a funeral
What to wear to a funeral or memorial for men and women: dark, simple and respectful clothing, family wishes, cultural customs, summer heat and what to avoid.

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What to wear to a gala
Most galas are black tie or black tie optional. How to read the invitation, what women and men wear, whether a suit or trousers work, and what to avoid.